par·a·dox (noun) /ˈperəˌdäks/ a seemingly absurd or self-contradictory statement or proposition that when investigated or explained may prove to be well founded or true. “in a paradox, he has discovered that stepping back from his job has increased the rewards he gleans from it” In life and literature, I have come across some thought-provoking paradoxesContinue reading “CALLING OUT the Paradoxes in My Life”
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Reconnecting with FAMILY
Family… A little bit of crazy A little bit of loud & a whole lot of love. Found on a pillow cover (Amazon) Since my move to Los Angeles, I committed to returning to my roots at least once a year. For me, it was something soothing and reconciling about taking the trains and hittingContinue reading “Reconnecting with FAMILY”
DATING If Over 50
“Maybe it won’t work out. But maybe seeing if it does will be the best adventure ever.” the single woman Is it possible to meet “Mr. Right” at this point in my life? Can I fall in love in my 50’s? These are the two questions women in their prime dating lives will ever dareContinue reading “DATING If Over 50”
What Kind of FRIEND Are You? Part 2
It seems I am not the only person who celebrates their “ride or die” friends and friendships in their lives. As I am putting the finishing touches on this post, I am grinning from ear to ear. I received so many compliments for Part 1 of this series from readers as well as comments andContinue reading “What Kind of FRIEND Are You? Part 2”
What Kind of FRIEND Are You? Part 1
There are “friends” who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24 (New Living Translation) Our lifestyles actually work against establishing lasting friendships that stand the test of time and experience. In the midst of work, cooking dinner, homework duty, carpooling, and/or getting our taxes done, people are missing outContinue reading “What Kind of FRIEND Are You? Part 1”
CARING for Aging Parents
“I promised my mom and dad I’d never put them in a nursing home.” Millions of Adult Children For as long as I can remember, my mom has always had an extremely compromised health system. Ailments related to her pulmonary, cardiac and skeletal systems have plagued her. For over 40 years, her declining health hadContinue reading “CARING for Aging Parents”
Is Your Sacrifice Born from Duty or Love?
“Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is never the result of selfishness.” Napoleon Hill I have made many sacrifices in my life. I’ve witnessed others make sacrifices, as well. I have used my love for the guy as the barometer for how willing I was to sacrifice for him in my romanticContinue reading “Is Your Sacrifice Born from Duty or Love?”
In Whom Do You Place Your TRUST?
Preserve me O God, for in You I put my trust Psalm 16:1 Hello. My name is Linda and I am a recovering control freak. Back in the day, I was live and in charge! I took over every situation and created what I wanted, when I wanted, and how I wanted. It did notContinue reading “In Whom Do You Place Your TRUST?”
Back to School in Your 40’s, 50’s or 60’s
An investment in knowledge pays the best interest. Benjamin Franklin You are never too old to pursue your dreams. For me, going back to school to get my graduate degree was one of my dreams. Everyday, there was a nudging in my gut that this part of my life was incomplete. In fact, there wasContinue reading “Back to School in Your 40’s, 50’s or 60’s”
Who is steering the SHIP in your relationships?
If you want something you’ve never had, you have to do something you’ve never done. Thomas Jefferson What makes this absolutely positively freaking amazing auntie’s day are the eye-opening conversations I have with my niece and nephew. They are of adult age and have such interesting perspectives on life and love. I believe the combinationContinue reading “Who is steering the SHIP in your relationships?”
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